Speed dating tips for men

In this article I'd like to offer some speed dating tips for shy men. If you are anything like the men that I often speak to online, the prospect of meeting LOTS of women through speed dating services and events is VERY exciting....yet at the very same time, really scary as well. Why is it scary? Very simple. For a shy guy, the thoughts of having to make a powerful, personal impression in 7 minutes or less can feel like a terrible nightmare! If it takes you a while to warm up.....you probably think that speed dating is NOT a good choice for you, right? Well, let me give you a few pointers that I KNOW women will like, and will help you a long as well. Read on..:-)

Filed Under: Honesty (and Humor) is the Best Policy

Do you know what the very first thing you should do when you sit down? Be HONEST! Simply state right away and upfront in a FUNNY way - " I usually make a terrible first impression. How much time do we have?" This will automatically put her at ease....and she'll most likely laugh and say something similar - or let you know that your first impression has been a good one so far! There is NOTHING sexier than a man who knows how to laugh at himself...and if you can establish this straight up front with something that both mocks yourself, AND the situation you are both in....it's a phenomenally fun way to break the ice!

Filed Under: To be REALLY Interesting...Be Interested

This is SO true, and something that even the most outgoing guys don't get. The simple truth is that confidence is very sexy, and women love an outgoing guy. But...we ALSO love a guy who is interested in us first and foremost - and the best way for a shy guy to keep the conversation flowing is to let HER talk. Make good eye contact - ask good questions without being interrogatory, and laugh at her jokes! When the 7 minutes are up....you are going to be surprised at how many women want seconds, I promise..;-)

And One Last thing...Remember:

Women admit that they would prefer a man who COMMUNICATES passionately during sex (which means she wants a little lusty dialog..:-), they want you to learn the landscape a bit better (understand her body) and they PREFER a man who is SUPREMELY confident and self assured.

You can INSTANTLY improve all three of these with JUST opening your awareness to the REAL secrets that women keep...and in my experience, the REWARDS for the men who go the extra mile are worth their weight in earth shaking ORGASMIC gold for ALL of us!

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