Tuesday, September 21, 2010

What's wrong with the "Nice Guys" ?

You've probably read this kind of discussion somewhere else and here's another article explaining why nice guys don't get the girls. The main reason why nice guys don't get the girl of their dreams is because most of them seem insecure, even though they might not be that way in reality.

Nice guys come across as people who are immature and weak. The kind of people who can be taken for a ride at any point of time. They are low on confidence, they are shy and don't have much self-esteem. They worst thing about nice guys is that they allow themselves to be ill-treated and dominated by others which is something that women hate. Men are supposed to be the ones who are supposed to do the domination and not women. If you are a nice guy and are too good then may be you'll have to change a lil bit. If there's something you don't like, you'll have to speak up for yourself and put people in their place once in a while. Overbearing things will just get your crushed nothing else.

Being a nice guy isn't a bad thing, but unfortunately a lot of women consider nice men to be feminine. However, it's the nice guy who ends up getting the best woman. So if you've been through rejections before, don't give a damn and just keep moving on, however do make changes in yourself. Maintain a balance between being too nice and too bad. Be strong bodies but soft hearted, respect your partner but respect yourself as well, be compromising but don't compromise with certain things in life and you'll be fine.


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